Luffed wrote:
I could have easily lifted the hull on Saturday, but this was maybe my 4th time sailing ever and I really didn't want to discourage the wife.
Did you get her out on the trapeze? It sounds scary at first, but after one gets used to it it becomes a much more comfortable postition to sail. Then try putting the trust she has in you on the line and fly a hull with her out there. The hard part is convincing the crew to lean further out when the hull lifts too high for comfort. Fear tells one to get back on the boat, but physics says one is better off throwing one's head and arms back.
As for the fear of a capsize, forget it. With the boat heeled so much it will lose power and be moving a lot slower, so if/when you do go over it's like jumping down into the water. Capsizes are a big deal the first couple times, but when you learn the dynamics of it through the experience the fear goes away (and in my case capsizes become fun). Whatever you do, do everything you can to NOT jump feet-first into the sail to avoid tearing it.
Pitchpoles, on the other hand, are never fun.