sgvarn......Keep in mind that the recommended tongue weight of 10 - 15% really applies to larger trailer loads.....as an example if your trailer weighed 1800 pounds, the 10% to 15% tongue load rule of thumb = 180 to 270 pounds.
It really gets back to the gross weight of your rig......my fully loaded PA-14 is on the order of 170 pounds, then add the spare tire up front, front winch on its post and finally the "3rd wheel" to save your back maneuvering the trailer in your garage, the tongue weight of my Trailex trailer easily exceed 110 pounds......
Since my 2012 Subaru Outback 3.6R hitch is rated for 200 pounds max tongue weight, with a maximum trailer weight of 1000 pounds w/o brakes and 3000 pounds with brakes..... you can see in this case, the max hitch load is not an issue since the gross weight of the trailer is under 350 pounds.
Being able to lift the tongue was the main issue for me.
So, to lessen the tongue weight, I relocated my axle forward so it's about 57-58" from the end of the main center beam.......this reduced the tongue weight to the low 70 pound range.....it trails like a dream behind my Outback.. no sway issues at 70 MPH.......then, I moved/relocated the lights up to a portable 2 x 2 that is u-bolted to the rear PA carrying handle....a simple 18", 4 wire plug pig tail makes the wiring easy to modify.....and now the lights can be seen by traffic behind your trailer.
See the photos below for reference.