Yeah, BUT, that is called sailing with family and friends and that's what it is all about.
Be nice if there were a mast tang type attachment at the top of the European boats' masts for attaching a Bob. Using "search" there are a number of complaints about the Universal Bob mounting bracket rivets loosening.
Nice quote from someone about anti-turtling float:
I capsized my H17 SE last Sunday with a baby-bob on the tip. While I was tending to my little boy and arranging the main and the righting pole, the boat sat with the tramp bottom to a 10 knot wind. The tip never went under water. I felt I had achieved my objective (not turtling and giving me time to tend to things).